that's because of the way discourse on India-pakistan is structured. pakis inflict pain on indian civilians both thru terrorism and military action, is their way of putting political pressure on India to give up kashmir.
and add to this, pakis as a matter of policy have never admitted that they are feeling the pain to Indian response. unless it is a spectacular event like it has happened in op sindoor, where it gets difficult to hide.
net net what happens in information space is that when any terror attack or duel with pakis happens , since india is a free society with very little control over information flow. more info ends up being amplified on Indian side than from paki side. you check in the footage available over the past two weeks, 90% of news footage is from Indian side across the world.
this means, defence enthusiasts have to factor this in when observing our security incidents. just because there is 90% more info from own side, does not mean retribution is not happening to the other side.