I think the argument is better served by what
@Anants said and exploring what social gains we get from making women feel like part of the national defence solution than be the ones defended and in this we should study social effects of women in military of israel - Israel doesn't draft women coz they are underhanded- if they were underhanded, they would remove military exemption for ultra orthodox kibbutzim Jews who make up roughly 15% of Israeli male population.
I myself interact a lot with Israelis since....Well I spent a year in israel as masters exchange student and have kept friends there. All I can say, is I wish I had a mother who served in military and I would've avoided 10 years of feeling in the dark on woke virus and Vasudeva kutumbakam nonsense.