i'd like to enhance upon this,
the thing with modern era women is, they have their first 'marriage' with 'the state' itself which is making sure they get all the chances at upliftment in name of education, employment opportunities and protection via laws and its implementation through machinery...this kind of environment is necessary for the gender equality that 'the state' is so insistent in bringing out;
however we are seeing the usual 'give them an inch, and they'll take a mile' happening with same; without any checks and balances over FEAR of local and international criticism at least and muh psyops at worst
Reminder,
IT'S NOT THAT WOMEN EARNED IT ALL THROUGH THEIR MOVEMENTS ANYWHERE, IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN CASE OF SOME STRATRA OF 'STRONG MEN*' GIVING OUT TO THEIR (SOMETIMES OUTRAGEOUS) DEMANDS BY SKEWING THE ENTIRE 'GAME' ON THEIR SIDE AND EVENTUALLY RUINING IT FOR NORMAL MEN
*strong men, not necessarily in physical sense but men with position and power of any kind
I recently coined this phrase in some teligram spaces that if things continue to go same way, we shall see it happening that, "INDIA BANEGA JAPAN"
- a hyperconsumerist society where despite muh patriarchal setup of basic marriage and family notions actual 'beneficiary' are women; they are fully hypergamous to extent of dragging their own kin to extinction, adultery is RATHER A NORM, society is apathetic to pleas and suffering of the disenfranchised, worst of all these women are so backed by entire state machinery with ~99 percent conviction rate means any minor offence and your life is practically over, what was left was ruined by ever prevalent 'mehengaai' and inflation there, so even if you have a chance at life with somewhat saner woman to start a family it's almost impossible to attempt - unless you both have bank balance to put behind raising a child
in Japan, those men who received these kind of 'kicks' on their guts end up turning alcoholic, or hypermaterialist thinking why bother with family and life when 'returns' at it are so marginal at best; all their hikkimori ('shut-in' homestaying) and otaku culture that's so shunned down upon by others is result of ruined socioeconomical dynamics; and every form of societal interaction et al is hypercommercialised (that thing of 'girlfriend for hire' and what not, so you can just have a chance to go out with a girl if you feel like it
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and this isn't only japan, even china is going same path nowadays; but unlike japs these chinese are ruthless when push comes to shove, there was a news somewhere that nowadays 'human trafficking' of women and outright selling of them to disenfranchised men who simply want wives is becoming an emerging mess in their rural areas; and their police is mostly 'forced' to turn a blind eye at these things over various reasons
so yeah, we are at that crossroads where hypergamy due to all reasons is taking over, and only some strata of 'strong men' are able to get that kind of fulfilment in their lives while most of the womenfolk is simply drugged in their minds with all feminism and all
last but not least,
age of marriage during post '47 India till at least early 70 here was 16; which was raised to 18 for both sexes and then raised to 21 for men in late 80s i think (need to check dates) - all of that got supplemented by education for women for muh literacy rates or whatever; now two-three generation down with similar outdated education system that keeps young emerging people closeted inside chaar diwaare of classrooms for good 10+ hours a day has further ostracised them from basic interactions with womenfolk while the other party is...mostly indifferent or pursuing things for employment or muh 'freedumb' or whatever reasons...long run me we're seeing birthrates dropping below replacement levels in many states here
BUT but, who is at the blame ultimately? There was a nice twitter poster somewhere, a lady living in korea, she pointed out that when SoKorea was getting their prosperity times with rise of economy their society was given an option, whether to preserve 'honour' of their womenfolk by keeping them in traditional family system or allowing them to go into workforce for kamaai...it was obvious that most opted for second option and long result is already apparent there - and frankly you can see it happening almost everywhere
^so yeah, feminism is just one facet of this entire complex scenario, there are so many things behind whatever we are seeing happening here, and we are still at beginning stage of it, all i can say to my brethren here is to brace for more impacts