Tbh going to India was one of the most depressing experiences of my life. The way people on twitter and even parts of this forum describe India, I honestly expected a really nice country. I was instead just looking at garbage everywhere and people living in squalorous conditions, somehow thinking it's okay. Nobody really questioning it and just going about it like it's fine. It was legitimately upsetting. And hearing the infinite number of excuses people have for literally everything. It's just not acceptable to me. I don't understand it. I get that India has structural problems and all that but how, how can you guys be okay with it? I literally went to Badrinath and witnessed a police officer take a bribe to let somebody skip the line that I was in for 1 hour. At Kedarnath, the freaking mandir was closed so Advani could have it for a private function. The priests themselves asked for a bribe!
It was extremely upsetting. Very very sad.
Edit: Even the places where the bodies of our deceased are cremated, just disgusting condition. It was terrible. I was so sad, I felt really sad the whole time I was there.
Many years ago I happened to read an interview with a foreign developmental economist ( whose name I forget ) who'd visited India at the invite of Ms Aruna Roy - a ex civil servant & activist ( you ought to read up about her ).
Apparently while being driven from the airport to their destination the car stopped at a signal where a hideously deformed beggar approached the car to ask for alms. Ms Roy casually slid the windows of the car up looking in another direction & made small talk with the said economist.
This greatly disturbed the economist who later on the trip confronted Ms Roy about this . She explained that there's so much poverty in India that if you really were to pay cognisance to every such instance you'd lose your sanity.
I'd put down the reactions of Indians here or outside the virtual world you've listed in your post mostly to this phenomenon. It's a kind of cognitive dissonance.
Is there a problem with poverty squalor etc in India ? Yes of course there is. It's far worse than what you think of it for in your trip to India you've merely scratched the surface. Is it going to get better ? Yes & no .
As long as we keep adding to our population without commensurately addressing the politics & economics of it , there are sections which'd do better & many who'd simply slip thru the cracks like it is worldwide & like it was with that person begging at the signal in the beginning of this post .
And yet there are vast areas across sectors , where India has done far better than what we were at the time of our Independence. I don't think even the worst critic of India will be able to dispute this fact if he's being honest with himself .
You may probably compare India of today with the situation in your country where you were raised or now reside or the west in general but let me point out the problem with this approach. You're merely seeing the end result or the pinnacle of achievement on the back of some serious issues which took generations to only tackle not solve & which have gone through pretty much the same trials & tribulations we're now enduring with much the same conditions , possibly better in some aspects , when they embarked on this journey.
For perspective have a look at what New York or Paris or London was in throughout the 19th century especially the poverty & squalor prevalent there then . I've named them as these were and are some of the most prominent cities in the world . If you check the issues they've faced then , you may well wonder what the situation would've been in other less prominent cities in the same country leave aside the rural areas. You'd see eerie parallels with a Mumbai or Delhi now , what to speak of the rest of the country.
This then requires a multi pronged approach to tackle the problem at hand & time which'd see a few generations go by before we even begin to get a grip over the problem. This isn't going to happen in mine or your lifetime by any stretch of imagination. Unfortunately , that's the sad truth & the long & short of it.