Folks, I am in a pinch. I was preparing for upsc and taking care of my sister who's bipolar. She's okay now. I was also dealing with other personal issues. But it took a lot of time. I graduated in with my btech in 2021. I know I need to get into a job asap. But with gap years, it's going to be extremely hard.
I dont have any skills right now. So can anyone guide me what skills I need to learn. Both existing and emerging so that I can crack a entry level job this year. A job which isn't too stressful cuz I still need to take care of my sister. I ain't expecting too much money. I also know many will shit on me and companies will avoid me like a plague. But still. What should be the best course of action?
Odisha. I didn't apply for state govt jobs because I didn't have my language certificate. Passed the language exam and now I can apply for state govt jobs.
Let's see. I am getting a job this year though. No matter what. I will go through the recommendations here and see what I do.
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i know that feel bro...i really do...
I had been in similar boat as you except i didn't have to take care of a relative like that, but my mother's sick with so many issues and recently my father got severe heart attacks in span of two days, and my siblings' marriages were hanging by a thread over everything...fortunately by grace of Ishwar and my late ancestors things went fine
i am grinding my gears in soulless private itkoolie job since post graduation, covid times, mainly doing frontend thing, coding in javascript mainly, then on side i run a typical hardware and support guy thing for local customers where ~80 percent customers come to get their pc formatted and installed with some windows OS
it turned me insomniac and work-life issues were taking a toll on my mental state too...had to resort to taking ashwagandha a teaspoon worth every night before hitting bed, which also made me a mentally mutt-like person, devoid of much emotions, as ashwagandha decrease prolactin the stress hormone but spike serotonin the happiness hormone and may kill your overall emotions
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but i had to do what i had to do for some proper sleep
and as if it wasn't anything, inflation that came with covid times was making my already meagre earnings deplete, i don't even have two lakh worth of savings on my name
fortunately i was able to clear a govt job and have filled my papers, now waiting for order and posting letter to arrive
i don't think i'm in position of advising you much, but please my humble request, value your overall wellbeing as much as your financial status, and try your best to not get exploited in market (both physically and mentally) as dhandho bhediyas are gonna suck it out of you
if you're able to do some govt job hunt, currently there's an opening for 'junior assistant' = typist-like-clerk in the Supreme Court of India, and Odisha is listed there for test centres so you can hopefully easily take this chance