Opinions and Discussion about Feminism.

[Suryavanshi]

The most significant aspect of this event is that people have been exposed to the bufoonery of courts. Never before someone had put court in this much fire.

 

[crazywithmath]

Some poeple value integrity over everything else, I think he was one of them.
5 lakhs could be solution to all of his problem but he didn't budge.
Not his fault, if we condemn him for this than we have to excuse every criminal that has bribed his way out. Calling Atul into fault is excusing everything wrong with society.
Not his fault society is rotten.

The constant harassment was solely for getting higher bribe negotiation.
Blame is not to be put on him.

Leave that 5 lakh amount (I did not even mention it), there was still enough legal avenue. Guy was not really broke, he 100% could have approached a higher court - there was enough legal avenue already as I have pointed out in my post. He received 110 hearings (majority of them were not even conducted because the other party did not turn up) over a course of 2+ years and chose to take it lying down? Were his lawyers idiots?

With all due respect, taking his own life solved nothing - nothing at all! Just that his ex-wife is fucked too. But that is irrelevant now, cuz the poor guy is no more.

He was in touch with a prominent MRA group ie SIFF so it is doubtful that he did not have any help/knowledge/legal advice. The depression angle MSM is trying to push but it's doubtful if that was even the issue here.

I don't know man. His relatives and lawyers are saying that he rarely spoke about it. Even his mother knew bits and pieces only.

 

[Suryavanshi]

Leave that 5 lakh amount (I did not even mention it), there was still enough legal avenue. Guy was not really broke, he 100% could have approached a higher court - there was enough legal avenue already as I have pointed out in my post. He received 110 hearings (majority of them were not even conducted because the other party did not turn up) over a course of 2+ years and chose to take it lying down? Were his lawyers idiots?

With all due respect, taking his own life solved nothing - nothing at all! Just that his ex-wife is fucked too. But that is irrelevant now, cuz the poor guys is no more.

I an not much well versed in legal matters but wouldn't he be allowed to approach higher court only once the lower court had given its verdict?

 

[spikey360]

I an not much well versed in legal matters but he wouldn't he be allowed to approach higher court only once the lower court had given its verdict?

Absolutely. Family courts are the first stage, then one can move the appeals court, the high court, the supreme court. The journey is arduous and long, but there have been many instances where the women have been chastised and castigated by the court for their misdeeds.

 

[Suryavanshi]

Don't wa

Let me give an anecdote from my personal life.

Every now and then, let's say my mother puts less sugar in my Coffee, and I say "Mom, there's less sugar in my Coffee" and the immediate response from her would be "No Vinash, the Coffee is fine".

This used to drive me mad. As I matured, I realised there's something evolutionary in women that stops them from taking responsibility for anything at all in their lives. They'll give a 1,000 excuses for something as small as a Coffee but never accept the truth that it was their fault of putting less sugar.

Women will do all sorts of mental gymnastics but will never accept any responsibility. They'll always claim that it was someone else's fault.

Look at it from their perspective for years they have been subject to musing of men. It's not necessary that most of them weren't treated badly but they had no power at their disposal even if someone did get treated badly.

If you make a statement that "women have no accountability" than it won't be accepted by any women.

 

[spikey360]

I can say only one thing to the members out here. Be a man. Even if it means death, but be a man.
This guy went out in the exact opposite way of being a man.
Don't glorify a suicide case.
There are lakhs of men out there who are taking their evil spouses head on through the legal system.
And.. if you think legal system is not for you - fine. be a man about it, do what our forefathers did, enough said.

 

[crazywithmath]

I an not much well versed in legal matters but he wouldn't he be allowed to approach higher court only once the lower court had given its verdict?

Replugging from one of my earlier posts;

The repeated changes in the statements of the accuser, along with filing and withdrawing of newer charges at regular intervals should have been noted by his lawyer and could have been reason enough for a fresh petition at some higher court. Astonishing how nobody even bothered.

Some of those criminal cases were filed at the High Court (by his ex-wife) and withdrawn subsequently.

The case was receiving hearings after hearings but the ex-wife was not turning up - thereby dragging the case. The guy could have moved to a higher court seeking speedy resolution here.

I know this cuz was involved in a legal battle over a disputed piece of land and one of the opposing parties (who were my blood relatives) employed a similar tactic of filing and withdrawing criminal cases at regular intervals against my dad and would routinely skip hearings at a lower court.

 

[Corvus Splendens]

There are lakhs of men out there who are taking their evil spouses head on through the legal system.

+1
Few lawyers in the extended family. 1/3rd of the cases they get in metro cities are messy divorce fillings. 3 out of 5 times it's the men who are the victims, and only 1 out of 5 cases would be a mutual agreement. And in 90% of these divorce cases, the soon to be ex-wifey already has a new boyfriend. 5 out of 5 times the husbands are earning a handsome wage, and the abusive wifey wants the lion's share of it. These women often bring a gang of goons and thoroughly loot the husband's house and abuse the elderly in-laws. The whole process is so meticulous, it's almost as if the women had been planning it for over a year. Women are abusing and then separating from their ill husbands, but they won't file a divorce. They are just waiting to claim the house after the untimely death of the poor husband, who's condition may have been rapidly deteriorated by their wife's abuse. But the advocates always say, persevere. The civil code may be tipped in favor of women, but men can still fight, and men are winning these fights.

 

[haldilal]

Some poeple value integrity over everything else, I think he was one of them.
5 lakhs could be solution to all of his problem but he didn't budge.
Not his fault, if we condemn him for this than we have to excuse every criminal that has bribed his way out. Calling Atul into fault is excusing everything wrong with society.
Not his fault society is rotten.

The constant harassment was solely for getting higher bribe negotiation.
Blame is not to be put on him.

He was in touch with a prominent MRA group ie SIFF so it is doubtful that he did not have any help/knowledge/legal advice. The depression angle MSM is trying to push but it's doubtful if that was even the issue here.

Ya'll FYI those 5 lakh would had stopped only one came not the others and the women filed 9 cases against, it was never ending fight.